LESSON 4: NO TWO DEATHS ARE EVER THE SAME
Losing a loved one leaves you scarred in a way that cannot be adequately captured in words but the most painful part is, no two deaths are ever the same.
With each loved one you lose, the pain you experience will also be different. After I cried and mourned for my brother, I thought nothing in the world would ever shake me.

Alas, when Mama died, the pain I felt was on another level. I lost my appetite for weeks and lost weight drastically. At that time, I told myself nothing can ever make me shed tears ever again nor destabilize me.
But, death came calling again, taking Praise 🥹 and my heart was shattered into shreds. I was left confused and unsure of how to move on. That was when I realised that there’s no script when it comes to pain and death.
There’s nothing that prepares you for the pain that comes with losing a loved one because each loss is different and each pain is in it’s own class. Know that and know peace. ✌🏽